How Appreciative Are You?

Last weekend I returned to St. Catherine University for my class reunion. I was thrilled to see Julie Beckel Nelson, assistant professor of business administration, giving a talk on influence.It definitely was a case of “if I’d only known then what I know now.” Plus...

"You’re Not Really a Team Player"

Do you ever have the experience of seeing someone and then jumping back to an earlier version of you? I was asked to do communication coaching with an executive: Matt. He knew his job well. But the people around him complained he was abrupt and sarcastic. Getting...

"Three Leaders Walked into a Bar …"

“… Then their assistant moved it out of the way.”Before language, there was laughter.Laughing was a way to bond with our tribe. It showed we weren’t aggressive, and others were welcome. Laughing along allowed us to fit in with the group. This was the human...