I took my first trip to England in college. A few days in, all the other students began working on their British accents. (They sounded like a nightmarish version of Monty Python’s Flying Circus.)

When someone asked me why I wasn’t joining in, I said, “Over here, my American accent is novel – so why try to sound like a Brit?” I didn’t know that the American accent was equally objectionable to a Londoner’s ears …

It’s fun to listen to a skilled impressionist. These people often take someone we know, add a little “over the top,” and we laugh at the results. (Melissa McCarthy’s character, “Spicey,” retired from SNL this week, is one example.)

But have you ever thought that your people may be doing the same thing with you? Or people outside your organization may be doing something similar with your company?

The Death of Language — and Connection — in Business

Earlier in your career, you probably received some missives from “corporate” (kind of a one-word caricature, isn’t it?). Maybe you even struggled with what it was telling you, or asking you to do, because neither was clear.

Then you probably sniggered at how stilted and lifeless it sounded. There couldn’t possibly be a living, breathing human at the other end of it!

Now that you’re the leader, have you checked what’s going out under your name or coming from your lips?

  • Try speaking your mission/vision statements without needing an oxygen mask to finish the all-inclusive sentences. Would that younger version of you be rolling your eyes on this?
  • Try reading your board of directors packet without going into a coma. How much is just a tweak from the tortured prose you used in the last version? Do you think directors haven’t noticed — or stopped reading closely themselves?
  • Try listening to your investor presentation, which sounds nearly indistinguishable from what your competitors are saying. Why should anyone buy your stock or cover your company rather than theirs?

And the Lawyers Come Rushing In

It’s true: there are times when you’re forced into legalese to reduce business risk. But too many times we use this as an excuse not to think or interact with others. I knew a general counsel whose goal was that an annual meeting last 20 minutes and have no questions from shareholders.

Sometimes we don’t want the messiness of having people question our messages. We’re into push mode: shove the information out there and move on to the next thing.

But what does that tell your people, partners and clients about how valuable they are to you? Can you say, “Necessary evil?”

Communicate Like a Person

Bring yourself back into your communications, in- and outside your company. Speak in your own voice: as a leader who cares about all of your stakeholders. Get back to your job of persuading people by inspiring them, rather than baffling them with BS.

Make that younger version of you proud to have grown into you. And when people lampoon you, increase the chances that it’s a mirthful tribute rather than a snarky satire.

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