When You Want to Say, "You BLEW It!"

For months, my client—the CEO of a steel processing company—had been negotiating a joint venture with an international partner. The news release announcing this deal had finally been blessed by countless executives and attorneys. (See “The Hydrant Theory.”) It was...

Video: Why Our Brains Hate Goals

New Year’s resolutions. Organizational goals.We all feel pressured to set them. Yet research indicates that 92% of us won’t achieve our goals. And we often abandon them before January ends.There’s a lot of speculation on why that happens. This...

Want Others to Change? Listen Up!

There are two types of listening.The first is the most common: listening to respond. You know this. You can see the person you’re speaking with is just waiting for you to take a breath, so she can tell you something. (Often a story that one-ups yours.)The second is...