What I Learned by Screwing Up a Board Meeting

I’m on the board of the local chapter of a professional association. For six months, I’ve been on the committee in charge of updating the website, watching the project languish. At a lunch with the chapter president, I said, “I’ll be happy to take the lead on this...

Why Haven't You Already Gotten What You Want?

It’s easy to blame the universe. Or bad luck. Or someone who doesn’t like you who’s standing in your way.But I’ve learned the genesis usually is with me, so I need to start there first. A friend (let’s call her Sally) explained that her supervisor’s boss seemed to be...