Are You Being Persuasive or Manipulative?

The first time I spoke on the topic, I asked the crowd, “What comes to mind when you think of the dark side of persuasion?” They shouted out. “Controlling.” “Manipulative.” “Tricking people into doing things they don’t want to do.” “Pushy.” I shared my definition of...

Stop "Being Authentic" Already!

After having a temper tantrum, my nearly three-year-old grandson Wyatt looked up and said, “I just had a fit!”I must admit: hearing about “authenticity” gives me one.It’s a trick of my brain. Say “authenticity” to me, and I hear “synergy.” Or “core competency.” Or...