Video: Who Are You Bailing On?

It’s a memory that still haunts me.I had the chance to say something helpful to a person in need. Instead I thought about “getting in trouble” and got out instead.Here’s what I wished that younger version of me had known. What Do We Lose When...

What I Learned by Screwing Up a Board Meeting

I’m on the board of the local chapter of a professional association. For six months, I’ve been on the committee in charge of updating the website, watching the project languish. At a lunch with the chapter president, I said, “I’ll be happy to take the lead on this...

Stop "Being Authentic" Already!

After having a temper tantrum, my nearly three-year-old grandson Wyatt looked up and said, “I just had a fit!”I must admit: hearing about “authenticity” gives me one.It’s a trick of my brain. Say “authenticity” to me, and I hear “synergy.” Or “core competency.” Or...

You Can't Duct Tape Grief

Our happy dog Bob died unexpectedly last week. I learned about this when driving to Minnesota for a funeral for my aunt. (What a rotten day!)While dealing with my own loss and mourning, I realized the people around me were equally at a loss about what to do.Here’s...